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Monday, January 9, 2017

Chance's Baby Blessing

This past Sunday we blessed Chance in our church and it was such a special day I had to record it! It was a snowy, wintery day so we kept it intimate and just invite our immediate families and my best friend Courtney and her family. We were so happy to share this special day with everyone and love seeing how much everyone has come to love Chance. 

When we got to church a member of our  bishopric announced that we were going to be doing a blessing for baby "Chase". Of course my whole family started laughing because I'm feeling so stressed he is going to be called Chase his whole life, everyone calls him that! Ugh I hope he doesn't grow up to hate me for this name. I've thought seriously about changing it but I really do love his name and he is just Chance to me now. Chance is such a happy name to me, and this is our happy sweet boy so I guess we'll stick with it. 

Andrew blessed Chance with his dad and my brother in law in the circle. It was a small circle and I couldn't help but be sad that my dad wasn't there to join, but I know he was there in spirit and was watching us and is so happy to be "Grandpa Mike who lives in heaven."

After Andrew's beautiful words (he's the well-spoken one in the family) we had everyone come over for breakfast (since it was at 8:30am. It was very fun and chill and I was so proud of myself for not stressing about everything being perfect and really enjoying this day. I kept it low key and seriously did ZERO cooking. The grandmas did most of the work, Karen brought a yummy breakfast quiche and my mom did a pretty fruit plate. We just picked up donuts and muffins and called it good. My kind of party. 


Here are a few pictures for us to remember: 
^^of course andrew got sick the morning we had to bless him! what a good sport. ^^




 It was such a great day and Chance killed it in his outfit. I love my boys so much! 

xoxo
steph


Friday, October 28, 2016

Chance is Here!

I can't believe it really happened! After going 8 days past my due date I had a baby and am officially a mom. It still doesn't seem real! We welcomed Chance Thomas Christensen to the world on Monday, October 10th at 2:16pm. He was a whopping 8 pounds 13 ounces and 20 inches long. 

I was scheduled to be induced on Monday the 10th but started having regular contractions on Sunday night around 7pm. We finally decided to go to the hospital around 12am since my contractions were about 2-3 minutes apart. When we got there I wasn't dilated past a 3 so we decided to start me on Pitocin and get me going (since I was going to be induced the next morning anyways). I opted out of an epidural at first because the contractions weren't too painful or difficult to work through. I labored in the hospital for about 7 hours, and when I was still only dilated to a 4 they decided to break my water.

Just before they broke my water I started having some reallllly bad back pain, like the worst I've ever felt in my life. It scared me pretty bad and the doctor said it was only going to get worse since the baby was posterior. I decided then to get an epidural and I am SO glad I did because once I had the epidural the whole experience was so enjoyable. After they broke my water I dilated from a 4-10 in about an hour and a half and was ready to start pushing!

Once we started pushing it was actually fun - everyone was so encouraging and Andrew just kept saying "good job, good job, that was a good one!" At one point after about an hour and a half of pushing I told him not to say good job unless it really was a good one! We were laughing and having a lot of fun while I pushed and it felt like just a really good workout. After each push Andrew would give me a drink of water, I wasn't thirsty it was just tradition haha and then I would push again. I started to get a little overwhelmed after about an hour and a half when I hadn't made much progress and was starting to get really tired. Everyone kept saying "we can see the start of his head, you're doing so good." I honestly didn't believe them and kept saying "you nice nurses are big fat liars!" One of the nurses suggested they bring in a mirror so I could see what they were talking about and that ended up being one of the coolest parts of giving birth. They rolled this huge mirror into the room and I was able to see the whole thing. Once I saw that I was really making progress I got a second wind and became so determined and pushed that baby right out of me. 

Experiencing my body giving birth was one of the coolest things I've ever been through. The labor and delivery wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it was going to be (thanks to the epidural!) and I was surprised how much fun we had through the whole thing. We had some of the greatest nurses who took such good care of me I felt like we were all best friends by the end of the ordeal. When Chance finally arrived they put him right on me and the first thing I thought was "holy crap he's huge!" He had rolls on his arms and legs and was the most perfect pink little giant baby I'd ever seen. I surprised myself how instantly overcome with love and emotion I became and I cried and said a small prayer of thanks when I saw him.

Once that sweet moment passed the second thing I thought was "holy crap...his head." Andrew and I nervously looked at each other and then Andrew says "Perfect, he looks like Frankenstein, just in time for Halloween!" It was so hilarious and I'm sure the nurses and doctor thought we were the worst parents ever. It was amazing and I will laugh about that forever more.

Meeting Chance was one of the best things I've ever done, and only made me fall deeper in love with Andrew. I just stare at this baby and think how cool it was that our love made a tiny little person who is now part him and part me. I can't believe how much I love my boys and how blessed I am, the whole experience has been really amazing.

Here are a few photos from the hospital and our first few moments with Chance:
^^don't ask...^^


Oh how we love this baby! 

xoxo
-steph

Monday, October 3, 2016

Baby Boy Nursery and Preparations

In honor of today being my due date (and NO sign of our little man coming any time soon) I've decided to post about some of our baby preparations including the nursery so we can always remember how much fun it was getting ready for our little Chance man to come. 

I (surprisingly) didn't buy any baby stuff until pretty late this summer. But once I started it was ON. We had so much fun getting all his clothes and furniture and all the baby things needed. We have also felt SO blessed to have FOUR showers - people are so generous and we have been given so many awesome gifts! I have been terrible at taking pictures of my showers but here are a few:
^^my sweet neighbor friends at my shower^^
^^my work shower - I believe in gender equality in the workplace so all my guy friends were also invited (i'm so funny) ^^
^^ with my sweet mother in law who threw me a beautiful family shower in her gorgeous new house^^
^^I am so mad I didn't take any pictures at this one but my bestie Court threw me a super cute friend shower as well. This pic was when we found out we were both due a day apart! We are super awesome. ^^

One of the other fun parts aside from these amazing showers has also been getting the nursery done. It is now one of my favorite rooms and I just go in there and sit and feel him move and get excited. We love it!

Can't wait for little buddy to get here! 

xoxo 
-steph